Even though that is pretty obvious, I think sometimes we beat ourselves up over the fact that we’re not the best. Sometimes, we even refuse to try something new because there are so many others who do it better: “I’m not a very good athlete – why bother trying out for the team?” “I can’t audition for the musical. There are SO many singers better than me.” “Why even apply for that college? They wouldn’t let me in.”
We miss out on opportunities just because we aren’t “the best.”
Forget being “the” best. Focus instead on being YOUR best. Maybe you’re not the pitcher on your softball team. That’s all right. Be the best outfielder you can be! Maybe you get a part in the ensemble and not a lead in the musical — that can actually be more fun! Enjoy it! And write the best college application essay you can write. Even if you don’t get in every school you apply for, at least you know you gave your best in applying.
Trust that God works even through our weaknesses to get us where He wants us. There can’t be a softball team full of pitchers or a musical full of leads. And ask any coach or director – every person in the team/cast is essential for success. So do your best in the role you have. Ask God what lessons He has for you in those roles, at this time. He is building your character, developing the “best” you, for His glory. Change your focus from others or yourself to God. There is far less stress and far more joy when we do that!
Being “the best” is overrated, girls. It creates stress and fosters jealousy. Being YOUR best is much more satisfying and far more God-honoring.
“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” ~Col. 3:23
