Can We Talk?

I saved the “best” for last — communication. Of all the issues teen girls and their parents have, all the questions that we saw at the girls’ event at our church, this was the biggest. Why? Because when communication breaks down or disappears,...

Lonely

“Why do I feel so lonely when I have so many people in my life?” This question was asked by a teen girl at our church. I am sure she is not the only one with this on her heart. Loneliness can be felt in a crowd, in a large family, even by people with lots...

Overly Protected?

“Why are my parents so overprotective?” This is another of the questions submitted by teen girls at my church (see previous post for more info). When we discussed this with the group, I saw girls’ heads bobbing and moms’ heads shaking. I even...

When Should I Start Dating?

This weekend, I was a part of an event for teen girls at my church called “The View,” focused on helping girls see themselves the way God sees them. A few weeks before the event, the girls were invited to write down some questions they had. There were...

My Self Has Enough Help, Thank You

There are rows and rows…and rows and rows… of shelves housing books devoted to “self-esteem.” Most seem to focus on loving yourself, forgiving yourself, being good to yourself. Because we just don’t think enough of ourselves. Right....

Me….Last?

Jesus was a Servant. I have heard that. I know that. Jesus washed his disciples’ feet, he hung out with the lowest of the low, healed those other peple wouldn’t even come near. But sometimes, when you grow up in church, it’s easy to just...